Saturday, 19 September 2015

Forth Coming Operation

Hello everyone

Last Wednesday L went into school for a couple of hours and then we picked her up to take her to Manchester's Children's Hospital for her first pre-op appointment. We got there too early but parked up in the multi-storey car park anyway. The day was warm and sunny so we decided  we would have our picnic in the park opposite the hospital (don't know the name of the park). It's nothing special, lot's of grass and trees, a raised flower bed with railings all around it and lots of benches and picnic tables but nice and calm all the same.
Afterwards we made our way to the hospital and booked in by computer and found our way to the waiting room and waited to be called. We were called to take L to x-ray. She had very detailed pictures taken which she hadn't had done before and they took ages to do. Then back to the reception. We just sat down when we were called in to see our new consultant, Mr Tandie. What a lovely man. He talked to L and both M and me and explained what was wrong with L's back in great detail and what he will do and how.

L has Scoliosis which is curvature of the spine. L's spine has grown in an "S" shape and the way Mr Tandie says he is going to straighten it is by placing two rods either side of L's spine and pinning each vertebra and the only ones he's not pinning are the bottom two and the ones in her neck. This will leave her with reduced back movement. (ie It won't curl so no more roly polies) The consultant gave us the date of 19th October to not look forward to. Sooooo much information to take in and digest.

L is, understandably, very scared and was in tears a lot on Wednesday and was worried about dancing as she lives for her dance class. Luckily her dance lessons are very varied covering many different styles so I reassured her that she will still be able to do some like Tap, Ballet, maybe Cheer Leading. Last nigh we had a chat with her dance teacher and she reassured L that there will be some dances she can still do but may have to sit out of others but not to worry. Also in November there are some dance exams coming up which the class have been practising for and so that L doesn't miss out her dance teacher is going to film L dancing the set pieces and present the video to the examiner for him/her to judge. Which is great.

Next week we have to return to the hospital for a full day of tests and investigations a full body MOT. Another tough day. We also have a list of questions that we've all come up with so must remember to take them with us.

L and I had a chat with her year head and form teacher about her education during this time and have been great so far in organising what needs to be done right up to Christmas and what plans will be needed afterwards too. So far the support is good.

I found some pictures of Google images but couldn't get them on here.

Thank you for visiting

Carolx


Update (02/11/15) - We have received our letter of conformation and L goes in for her operation on 16th November.






9 comments:

  1. I have 2 friends who had Scoliosis, both had the same operation that has been offered to L. It has transformed their lives. S has done a course in curtain making and now has a successful business and M now works in the family decorating business and is married with baby number 2 on the way.

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    1. That's really good news. Thank you Pam. Something positive to think about.
      How's your shoulder doing?
      Carolx

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  2. Wow, this is a big thing you are all facing x it is the means to an end. I think it will be tough but try to hold on to when her scoliosis is a thing of the past xx sending you all a bit extra internetty love x

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    1. Thank you Rachel. You are right it's only short time to endure the pain and discomfort when you think of the bigger picture but in the meantime we have to go through it. Her friends are being really supportive and want to visit when she comes home. Which will be nice.
      Carolx

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  3. October will soon be here and soon be gone and then L can look forward to pursuing all her hobbies with a mended back. Best wishes to all of you.
    xx

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    1. Your right Mum. and then it will be Christmas. A good opportunity for me to get well organised.
      Carolx

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  4. Hi carol Ls bedroom looks lovely how did Ls operation go my daughter is having the same operation next month and I am so worried would love to hear how you got on. X x x

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    1. Hi Peter. L has her operation <all being well and we het the official letter, on the 16th November. I agree it is a worrying and scary time.
      Best wishes to you all

      Carolx

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    2. Peter please e-mail me and we can chat a bit more.
      Carolx

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